Traditional divorce defines spouses as adversaries, courtrooms as battlefields, and lawyers as gladiators. All of those definitions compound the pain of divorce. Reject the traditional definition of divorce and use a better divorce process. You are restructuring your family, not ending it.Learn More
Only after you reach acceptance are you able to do the hard work of planning a better future. Acceptance is at the heart of recovery from grief and the ability to imagine a life without pain. Get the help of a therapist, if necessary, to deal with your entirely normal feelings of anger, betrayal, and blame.Learn More
Get expert help from a lawyer and a financial expert. Do not face the complex legal proceeding that is divorce without expert assistance.Learn More
Do not turn your decision-making authority over to a Judge or Court Commissioner. They are strangers to you and your family. They will never understand your priorities and fears as well as you do.Learn More
- Invest your family’s financial resources in expert help – don’t try
to do this alone.
- Hire experts who share your goals: finding solutions not fighting.
- You choose how your divorce is handled. Choose wisely.